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What's Your Question About Nursing Homes?
By Kathy Gannoe 

March, 2008


Question: Does my mom have to have a feeding tube? The nurse says she needs one and made it sound like I had to agree.

Answer: Federal law has several important points about feeding tubes. A resident who is able to get enough to eat either alone or with help is not to be fed artificially unless their clinical condition demonstrates that this is unavoidable. Sometimes a feeding tube is recommended when a resident is difficult to feed or they take a long time to eat. Tubes should not be ordered under these circumstances because it is for staff convenience. If a resident's clinical condition calls for a feeding tube, it can’t be inserted over the objection of the resident or their legal representative. The decision about the appropriateness of tube feeding is to be developed with the resident or his/her family, surrogate or representative as a part of the overall care plan. Ideally, this would be discussed before a crisis point, but even if it isn't, it is still a team decision.



Question: Then I don’t have to have this tube for mom?

Answer: The short answer is “no.” As with all treatment decisions, the resident (or their legal representative) has the right to refuse a feeding tube. The facility is obliged to explain the benefits and burden of a feeding tube and to explore alternatives with you.



Question: Will they discharge her if I refuse a tube? The woman who called me said they couldn’t allow her to “starve to death.” I don’t want that either!

Answer: Sometimes staff say things to families that sound like threats. They may say that the resident will have to leave the facility if the tube is not used, or that they cannot allow the resident to "starve to death.” This can be very confusing and you can feel like you are backed into a corner. Food and water (nutrition and hydration) are emotionally charged topics. Food and water represent the most basic care we can give to another. No one wants to be responsible for "starving" someone else. When a resident refuses to eat, it is easy to feel personally rejected and to become frustrated and even angry with the resident for "rejecting our help.” It is important to clarify one thing. "Starvation" means to suffer or die of the extreme or prolonged lack of food. It is an absolutely inappropriate word to use in connection with the issue of feeding tubes. The decision families and legal representatives are truly making is about care. It is a decision about how a person will be taken care of at the end of life. It is a decision about medical treatment. It involves assuring that a resident's life values are respected and that their quality of life is supported.



Question: Will my mom die sooner if I don’t let them put a tube in? She’s already lost some weight.

Answer: That is certainly something I can’t answer. But, the loss of appetite and subsequent weight loss are a part of the progression of the disease and dying process. While there are medical treatments available to relieve many problems associated with disease and dying, there is little to offer someone to halt or to reverse this weight loss. The human body has many ways of adapting during the dying process. Reduced interest in food and water is one of nature's strategies which allows a resident to die more comfortably and peacefully.



Question: I just don’t know; I still feel uncomfortable. Is there anyone else I can ask about this?

Answer: Hospice nurses have had a lot of experience with feeding tubes and the dying. The Hospice philosophy is that death is a natural process and that the resident and family have the right to make choices regarding care. They believe that the body adapts as some diseases progress and that these adaptive processes should not be interfered with unless there is clear evidence that the resident would benefit. The Director of Nurses or Social Worker at your mom’s facility should be able to answer your questions and help you think through this decision. If the tube is rejected, the facility must still provide all of the other services which your mom needs, based on her assessment and care plan.



This column is presented as a public service of the Nursing Home Ombudsman Agency of the Bluegrass. If you have a question, send it to Kathy Gannoe, NHOA, 1530 Nicholasville Rd., Lexington, KY, 40503.

 


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